“Santa isn’t a person, Santa is a feeling, he lives in our heart’s and minds but not in the flesh.”
this holiday i am taking a page out of the cheesy romance novel I was reading the other day by holly rayner take a amount of money set it aside ,think of someone you know who needs something may it be someone you work with or go to school with or see all the time , take that money and do something nice for them but don’t let them know it’s from you , write from Santa and no matter what they say or do about it be proud you did the thing without credit and them knowing 
that is my tip for you . spread love this season and not hate.